I think the term "secrets" has been given a horrible reputation. "Secrets" is generally associated with things in a negative way as if having them is a bad thing. Everyone has secrets. They are called secrets because they are private things. Things that other people don't need to know or maybe shouldn't. I share my house, my money, my clothes, my time, my food, my friends, my fun, my sadness... everything. Sometimes secrets are the only thing some of us have that we don't have to share with anyone. Which is probably why we get so upset if we tell someone a secret and in turn that someone tells another person and so on. That secret was private. But if that is the case, we should keep our secrets to ourselves.